FAMILY COUNSELING SERVICE IS MOVING TO A NEW LOCATION 5-31-12!!!

OUR NEW ADDRESS WILL BE…

2432 REGENCY ROAD – SUITE 120

(SAME RED BRICK BUILDING AS CARETENDERS)

We hope Family Counseling Service will be able to better meet your needs in our new office building.  We look forward to serving you there!

10 Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship

1. Mutual Respect: Does your partner understand how great you are and why? Healthy couples recognize, acknowledge, and brag about each other’s strengths constantly.

2. Trust: Do you feel that your partner has the same commitment to your relationship when you are with them as when you are not with them? A healthy couple will have no doubt of their partner’s commitment to them, whether they are laying next to them in bed every night, or in a hotel on the other side of the country for a business trip.

3. Honesty:  Do you avoid telling your partner information that they would most likely feel is important for them to know?  This one goes hand-in-hand with trust, and is just as important for a healthy relationship.

4. Support: Is your partner there for you in good times AND in bad? In a healthy relationship, they will be there for you whether your world is falling apart, or everything seems to being falling perfectly into place.

5. Fairness/equality:  Is there an equal amount of give-and-take in your relationship? Neither partner should feel that they are giving more or receiving less than the other.

6. Separate identities: Do you have activities, interests, and friendships separate from your partners’? It is important that while you’re making compromises for your relationship, you aren’t losing out on being yourself and keeping other close relationships in tact.

7. Good communication: Do you feel like you can speak your mind around your partner? Couples who are good at communicating do it openly, honestly, and OFTEN.

8. Kindness:  Is being kind to your partner more important to you than being in control, getting your way, or being right all the time?  Being kind to one another is essential for a healthy relationship.

9. Humor:  Do you enjoy and appreciate your partner’s sense of humor, and can you use that humor to lighten up difficult situations?  Sharing a similar sense of humor with your partner and laughing together makes your relationship so much deeper, and more fun!

10. Learning: Do you feel like you have discovered everything there is to know about your partner?  While it is healthy to share all of yourself with your partner, it is impossible to do, even over a lifetime.  Healthy couples are constantly learning new things about each other.